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Best Places to Retire: How to Find Your Ideal Retirement Location

  • Lifehelm Staff
  • Sep 17, 2023
  • 6 min read

Updated: 7 days ago

Choosing Where to Spend Your Retirement Years

Where you choose to retire affects nearly everything else: how far your savings stretch, who you see week-to-week, how easily you reach good healthcare, and how much of your day is spent indoors hiding from weather. For most people, it's a bigger lifestyle decision than the one made when buying their first home — and a more reversible one than people often assume.

Here at LifeHelm, we'd rather you weigh the right factors than retire somewhere because it sounded nice in a magazine. This post is about the variables that actually matter when picking a retirement location.

Start with the Question Most People Skip

Where do the people you care about live?

The most consistent finding in retirement satisfaction research is that social connection matters more than weather, more than cost of living, more than scenery. If you move somewhere beautiful but isolating, you'll quickly find yourself flying back to your old city for half the year. If you move closer to children or grandchildren, you'll see them — which is usually the actual goal.

This doesn't mean family proximity should override everything. It does mean that any location decision should account for it honestly, including realistic estimates of how often you'd actually see people if you moved 1,000 miles.

Cost of Living and Taxes

Income and Social Security Taxation

Nine states have no broad personal income tax: Alaska, Florida, Nevada, New Hampshire (taxes interest and dividends only, phasing out), South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Washington, and Wyoming. For retirees with substantial taxable retirement income, this can be a real factor.

For Social Security specifically, only a handful of states still tax benefits in any form — and the list is shrinking. As of 2026, the states that still tax Social Security in some way are Colorado, Connecticut, Minnesota, Montana, New Mexico, Rhode Island, Utah, Vermont, and West Virginia (West Virginia is fully phasing out for tax year 2026). Most of these have generous age- or income-based exemptions. See our companion post on Social Security taxation for the federal picture.

Property Tax

Don't compare income taxes in isolation. Property taxes vary dramatically by state and county, and they often hit retirees hardest because home equity is a large share of net worth. Texas and New Jersey have low or no income tax but among the highest effective property tax rates in the country. Hawaii has the lowest effective property tax rate but a high cost of living overall.

Many states offer property tax relief for older homeowners — homestead exemptions, freezes on assessed value, or outright deferrals. Check your target state's program before you assume property tax will be a fixed cost.

Sales Tax

State and local sales taxes can add up. States with no sales tax: Alaska (no statewide, but local taxes apply), Delaware, Montana, New Hampshire, and Oregon. States with high combined state-and-local rates exceeding 9% on average include Louisiana, Tennessee, and Arkansas. For retirees on a fixed income whose largest expenses are housing and healthcare (often exempt from sales tax), the impact may be smaller than headline rates suggest.

True Cost of Living

Tax rates are one input among many. Housing is typically the largest single line item. Healthcare costs vary by state. Auto insurance, utilities, and groceries all matter. Tools like the Bureau of Economic Analysis's regional price parities, the Council for Community and Economic Research's COLI index, or AARP's cost-of-living calculators give a more complete picture than tax-rate comparisons alone.

Healthcare

Healthcare access becomes more important with each passing year. Several questions to answer about a prospective location:

  • How close is the nearest hospital with quality cardiac and stroke care?

  • Does the area have specialists in conditions you have or are likely to develop?

  • How does Medicare Advantage coverage stack up locally? Plan availability and network quality vary enormously by ZIP code.

  • Is there a primary care physician accepting new Medicare patients? In some markets, finding a primary care doctor takes months.

  • What's the home health and assisted living landscape like? You may not need it now, but you'd rather not move twice.

US News & World Report and the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services both publish hospital quality data. Long-term, healthcare access tends to be the factor that pushes people who retired "in the middle of nowhere" back toward more populated areas.

Climate

Climate matters more than people realize until they actually live somewhere different. A few useful framings:

  • How does your body handle heat versus cold? Sustained heat is harder on older bodies than sustained cold, in general.

  • What about humidity? Arthritis, respiratory conditions, and heat tolerance all respond to humidity.

  • What's the natural disaster profile? Hurricanes, wildfires, tornadoes, floods, ice storms — all have insurance and evacuation implications. The cost of homeowners insurance in coastal Florida or wildfire-prone California has become a major retirement-planning factor.

  • How much daylight do you get in winter? Northern latitudes get short, dark winters; some people thrive on that, others develop seasonal depression.

If you've never lived in a place for a full year, rent before you buy. Spending a January in Arizona feels different from spending August there. Most regrettable retirement moves were committed to before the second season.

Community and Activities

"What will you actually do all week?" is the question that gets glossed over. Places that look attractive on paper can be socially flat for newcomers — particularly if everyone there already has decades-old social networks you're not part of.

Some location signals worth checking:

  • Active senior centers, lifelong learning programs (OLLI or similar), and library programming

  • Universities or colleges nearby — typically anchors for cultural events and intellectual life

  • Religious or community organizations you might be drawn to

  • Walkability or transit, especially if you anticipate not driving at some point

  • 55+ active adult communities, if structured social life appeals to you (they're not for everyone)

  • Existing friends or family already in the area

International Retirement

A meaningful number of Americans retire abroad — often to Mexico, Costa Rica, Portugal, Spain, Panama, or various Asian countries — drawn by lower cost of living and (sometimes) a different pace of life. The trade-offs are real:

  • Medicare doesn't cover most care outside the United States. You'd typically need private insurance or to use the local healthcare system.

  • Social Security pays you anywhere (with rare exceptions) — but you'll still owe U.S. income taxes on the U.S. side, and possibly host-country taxes too.

  • Visas, residency permits, and financial requirements vary by country. Most retirement-friendly countries have specific residency programs, but they have minimum income or asset thresholds.

  • Currency risk is real. A 20% swing in the dollar can make your retirement noticeably more or less affordable than the day you moved.

  • Cultural and language adjustment is bigger for those who haven't lived abroad before. It's manageable, but underweighted.

If international retirement appeals to you, spend extended time in your target country before committing. Three months as a visitor tells you almost everything three weeks can't.

Common Mistakes

  • Moving where you vacationed. Vacation patterns don't predict daily life. The grocery store, the dentist, the rainy Tuesday in February — those are what you're really moving for.

  • Overweighting low taxes. A state with no income tax but bad healthcare access or no community for you is a worse retirement than a high-tax state where you have both.

  • Underestimating distance from family. The 1,000-mile move that sounded fine at 65 often feels different at 75 or 80.

  • Buying immediately. Renting for the first year in a new location protects you from the most common regret: discovering you don't actually like the place.

  • Not planning for the next move. Many retirees move twice — first to a place they actively chose, then to a place near family or with better support, when health needs change. Plan for that possibility.

The Bottom Line

The best retirement location is the one that matches the life you actually want to live, with the people you want to be near, and within a healthcare system that can handle what's likely to come up. Taxes and weather matter, but they're rarely the variables that determine whether a move was a good one.

If you're seriously considering relocating: rent first, visit during the off-season, talk to actual residents about what daily life is like, and make sure your healthcare and social connection answers hold up under scrutiny.

Here's to a retirement location chosen with eyes open.

Sources

  • Tax Foundation, "State Tax Rankings" and state-by-state tax data. taxfoundation.org

  • Bureau of Economic Analysis, regional price parities. bea.gov

  • AARP, "Best Places to Retire" methodology. aarp.org

  • Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services, hospital and Medicare Advantage quality data. medicare.gov/care-compare

  • Social Security Administration, "Your Payments While You Are Outside the United States." ssa.gov/pubs/EN-05-10137.pdf

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